I aint no gold digger!

First of all, I want you to scroll down to entry dated Tuesday October 28, 2008.
Read that and then come back to me.
Ready? Ok. So that same guy I spoke of had an appointment with us on the 9th. My coworker kept reminding me about it, b/c she was so excited b/c she thought that we would be so great together. I just kept saying "Ok, Danielle." So, he finally comes in and I pretend like I have no idea about what's about to go down. I left the office at 5:30 and my coworker tells me that now that I was leaving, she was going to talk to him, b/c she knew that I'd be all nosy trying to hear what she was saying. I played it off like I didn't care, but she was right, I would have tried to listen. LOL. So I go home and I'm waiting for her to text me or call me, but there was nothing. So, I did what I had to do for the night and figured she would tell me when I got to work in the AM. I get to work the next day and I'm just waiting for her to spring the news, but of course she was making me wait. Are you crazy? Really? I just wanted her to tell me! After about an hour, I say, "Ok, Danielle. I can't take it anymore!" She turns and gives me this cheesy smile b/c she knows exactly what I'm talking about. And it all went down like this:
First of all she tells me that he thought my name was Heather, that I didn't look like a Christina, I looked like a Heather. Um, really? If you are reading this, do I even remotely look like a Heather? No, I don't, thank you very much! And then he told her that he thought I was really cute, BUT what if I was gold digger? Danielle clearly stated that I was NOT a gold digger. (When she was telling me this, I kinda felt this weird enegry start to rise in me. I think that I really was just offended by what he said.) So then he proceeded to say that he didn't have time to be in a relationship. So Danielle said "Ok. So why can't you be friends? Why don't you go out for dinner or coffee or something?" And he says "Yeah, but what if she takes my money?" That right there just told me that his guy was not worth my time. I understand if you got burned in the past, but really, don't take it out on all of the other women in the universe. AND, my dear, I HAVE MY OWN MONEY TO SPEND! Sure, it would be nice if you pay for dinner every once in a while, or buy me flowers, or give me something sweet, but I CAN SPEND MY OWN MONEY! Ask anyone who has gone shopping with me! How you treat me is far better than what you can buy for me. You lost your chance!